Passion from the drugstore
Medical therapy is required in two cases: premenopause and menopause when the decrease in libido is due to hormonal changes. In this case (in the absence of contraindications), hormone replacement therapy may be prescribed.
The second condition, which occurs in about 10 % of women, is called Hypoactive Sexual Desire Disorder (HSDD). It is characterized by weak libido throughout life. The FDA has approved two prescription drugs to treat HSDD, referred to as "female Viagra”. But they are not at all similar to the well-known Viagra for men, as their principle of action on the body is quite different.
Flibanserin (Addyi) is a tablet that must be taken every night before going to bed in a dose of 100 mg, regardless of whether you plan to have sex or not.
Bremelanotide (Vyleesi) is a shot to be taken in your stomach or thigh 45 minutes before you have sex (i. e. only when you want to get aroused). The daily dose is 1.75 mg. Only one injection can be made within 24 hours, and no more than 8 injections in a month. The drug is injected with a special auto-injector pen.
Both drugs increase the activity of neurotransmitters in the brain, which play a key role in increasing sexual arousal. Be sure to consult a doctor before taking them, as the drugs have a number of contraindications.
Flibanserin should absolutely not be combined with alcohol, as blood pressure can drop to dangerous levels. Bremelanotide has no obvious interaction with alcohol.
A sex shop to help
If the decline in libido is a temporary phenomenon and not associated with medical reasons, a doctor will not prescribe you a pill. However, you can buy tools at sex shops without a prescription — although it is important to keep in mind that each of them has its own contraindications. Moreover, the so-called aphrodisiacs work differently for all people, and you should not have 100 % confidence in the result. So, what are the variants?
Kava (an herb of the pepper family from the Pacific Islands) can help to relieve stress and make the person feel calm. It can also make the person feel more relaxed and sexy. Kava is considered an empathogen, which is a substance that induces a sense of human connection and allows people to become more open to new experiences. This plant is believed to increase a woman's libido and awaken a desire for intimacy.
Maca root, grown in the Andes of South America, has earned a reputation as a superfood. It is believed to increase physical stamina, strengthen the immune system, correct hormonal imbalances during menopause, and enhance sexual desire in women. Maca root is also rich in vitamins and micronutrients, and it promotes digestion, increasing your energy levels.
Tribulus terrestris (pierced grapevine) is native to Asia but is now grown all over the world. A study by Brazilian scientists found that Tribulus terrestris is an effective natural supplement for increasing desire and arousal while promoting vaginal lubrication and increasing the likelihood of orgasm.
Ginkgo biloba (GBE) increases sexual desire by increasing blood flow to the genitals. It is available as a tincture or in capsule form.
Ginseng is known for its tonic effect and is often used as a natural remedy for sexual dysfunction. It is particularly effective in enhancing the sex drive of menopausal women, especially Korean red ginseng. It is sold as a powder or in tablets.
Spanish fly has been known for many centuries. According to legend, this aphrodisiac was used by the Roman Emperor Nero. There is no concrete evidence that this product really has any effect on sexual desire. The active ingredient of the Spanish fly is supposedly the bug cantharidin, which is crushed and made into a paste that can be applied to the genitals to enhance arousal. However, most products sold these days do not contain any cantharidin — it's just sugar water or other types of stimulants such as caffeine or synephrine.
Dryness
Vaginal dryness is a common problem many women face during intercourse. The right lubricant can help get rid of discomfort and get maximum pleasure.
Lubricants can be water-based, silicone, and oil-based. All of them are designed to moisturize but each have their own characteristics, so you should read the instructions before using. Some lubricants are designed specifically for sensitive skin and do not contain ingredients that can cause irritation, such as: glycerin, petroleum jelly, nonoxynol-9 and propylene glycol.
Lubricants can also have additional effects such as warming, cooling and tingling to enhance the sensation of intercourse. Before using any new lubricant, apply it to the inside of your hand for 10 min
